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The Art of Conversation! Who Practices It Anymore?

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Created by cisco > 9 months ago, 2 Oct 2013
cisco
QLD, 12353 posts
3 Oct 2013 12:03AM
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Conversation, by definition involves more than one person.

Also by definition it is a use of language, verbal or written, as a method of exchanging ideas between participants in the conversation.

This would imply that for conversation to happen there would be natural rules to be adhered to such as:-

1. One should put forward their idea as succinctly, accurately and briefly as possibly.

2. Another should not interrupter the process of the one putting their idea forward until it is complete.

3. Attempting to preempt the other's train of thought or speech is not permissible or valid as mind reading is not possible.

4. The one forwarding their idea should not embellish their speech with non-relevant information; that also means sticking to the subject of the conversation.




So I have a very perplexing question here which is:-

What is the mental affliction that most females and some males have, and what drug cures it, that prevents them from understanding and adhering to those SIMPLE and basic rules????????????????????

Sailhack
VIC, 5000 posts
3 Oct 2013 12:10AM
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Having a domestic with the wifey are we Cisco?

mineral1
WA, 4564 posts
2 Oct 2013 10:16PM
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Point 2. please add "Only jump in when you believe the other has stalled out to take a breath."
Point 3. please add " most have been conditioned to believe that unless its written down, the human capacity to reason a solution to the most basic problems, even finding the front door in ones house has negated all sentaments from point 3

paulford
WA, 312 posts
2 Oct 2013 10:33PM
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Not long ago i visited friends further south, a married couple with kids. I thought it would be good to get together and catch up, as we had not been in contact for some time so i thought the convo would be good. Well we started with a few cold one's and with a movie on the big screen. Half way through the film , i realised the couple were both on their Iphones, on Facebook. For the rest of the film they stayed on facebook, not talking to each other or me. It was a weird set up, i made my excuses and left..

paddymac
WA, 937 posts
2 Oct 2013 10:44PM
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cisco said..

Conversation, by definition involves more than one person.

Also by definition it is a use of language, verbal or written, as a method of exchanging ideas between participants in the conversation.

This would imply that for conversation to happen there would be natural rules to be adhered to such as:-

1. One should put forward their idea as succinctly, accurately and briefly as possibly.

2. Another should not interrupter the process of the one putting their idea forward until it is complete.

3. Attempting to preempt the other's train of thought or speech is not permissible or valid as mind reading is not possible.

4. The one forwarding their idea should not embellish their speech with non-relevant information; that also means sticking to the subject of the conversation.




So I have a very perplexing question here which is:-

What is the mental affliction that most females and some males have, and what drug cures it, that prevents them from understanding and adhering to those SIMPLE and basic rules????????????????????


I think you are defining the most efficient method or process of exchanging ideas. Exchanging ideas is only one of the drivers for conversation. Conversation can be for amusement, for instance...

Smithy
VIC, 859 posts
3 Oct 2013 10:19AM
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The art of conversation is not dead, try bed time with any young child...

pierrec45
NSW, 2005 posts
3 Oct 2013 10:40AM
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Simple.




Rex
WA, 949 posts
3 Oct 2013 9:02AM
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Smithy said..

The art of conversation is not dead, try bed time with any young child...



Or News time with the wife!

cisco
QLD, 12353 posts
3 Oct 2013 11:06AM
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Sailhack stating the obvious but I think Mineral1 has nailed it.

DavMen
NSW, 1500 posts
3 Oct 2013 12:41PM
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cisco said..

2. Another should not inter



i must interject

Skid
QLD, 1499 posts
3 Oct 2013 1:43PM
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"Seek first to understand, then to be understood"

Note: the order of the above is important.

One of the "7 habits of highly effective people" worth a look if you are interested in self development...

jaytee
WA, 154 posts
3 Oct 2013 1:32PM
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cisco said..

Conversation, by definition involves more than one person.

Also by definition it is a use of language, verbal or written, as a method of exchanging ideas between participants in the conversation.

This would imply that for conversation to happen there would be natural rules to be adhered to such as:-

1. One should put forward their idea as succinctly, accurately and briefly as possibly.

2. Another should not interrupter the process of the one putting their idea forward until it is complete.

3. Attempting to preempt the other's train of thought or speech is not permissible or valid as mind reading is not possible.

4. The one forwarding their idea should not embellish their speech with non-relevant information; that also means sticking to the subject of the conversation.




So I have a very perplexing question here which is:-

What is the mental affliction that most females and some males have, and what drug cures it, that prevents them from understanding and adhering to those SIMPLE and basic rules????????????????????


Here is a song that might take you back to when it all started



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