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Forums > General Discussion   Shooting the breeze...

The silent treatment

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Created by needsalt > 9 months ago, 24 Mar 2013
youngbull
QLD, 825 posts
25 Mar 2013 12:52PM
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Sometimes not enough can earn the silent treatment



FlySurfer
NSW, 4460 posts
25 Mar 2013 2:55PM
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needsalt said...
Would be only too happy to apologise if I could only figure out what I have done wrong



You might have done or not done something last year.

If you've done something wrong; apologies + presents.

If you know what you've done and you think it aint wrong; double silent treatment, make your own food, come home late and iron your own clothes.

If you have NFI WTF her problem is, a good ...., and she'll usually tell you afterwards.

sn
WA, 2775 posts
25 Mar 2013 12:20PM
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FlySurfer said...
If you have NFI WTF her problem is, a good ...., and she'll usually tell you afterwards.



ummm.... Fly, mate, needsalt is the sheila, the silly silent one is the bloke

stephen

Pugwash
WA, 7673 posts
25 Mar 2013 1:18PM
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Perhaps he just needs a new board and there is some kind of blockage...

Maybe you could buy him one??? (as long as it is not one of those square ones that have those long strings attached to them)...

needsalt
NSW, 381 posts
25 Mar 2013 5:11PM
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In my experience, it is usually buying too many boards that gets me in trouble

You guys crack me up. I'm going to get all my advice here from now on

It is actually a male friend I was worried about when I asked this question. A woman at work also upsets lots of people by randomly freezing them out. I'll try the flowers, massage and pants dropping and let you know how I go

sn
WA, 2775 posts
25 Mar 2013 2:33PM
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you do realise that Mark and Doggie will need photos-

[purely for research and reference purposes of course]

sameh
WA, 310 posts
25 Mar 2013 3:19PM
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i will selflessly volunteer my time if you require a role play partner.

doggie
WA, 15849 posts
25 Mar 2013 4:47PM
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sn said...
you do realise that Mark and Doggie will need photos-

[purely for research and reference purposes of course]




I was going to put that up sn but it sounded creepy, but thank you for that

stuk
NSW, 894 posts
25 Mar 2013 8:45PM
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beerdead
NSW, 433 posts
25 Mar 2013 10:49PM
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Go out with the girls and stay out late.

That'll jolt him to talk to you.

If he's that sensitive, then he's probably insecure as well.

Bazinga
QLD, 63 posts
25 Mar 2013 10:37PM
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Sorry does not mean that much anymore. People say it without being truely repentant for what they have done. Sorry is misused all the time and have effectively become meaningless.


I am sorry you feel that [}:)]way......

cisco
QLD, 12350 posts
26 Mar 2013 8:51AM
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If he is giving you the silent treatment, doing the same back will get you nowhere.

If you keep talking to him nicely but genuinely (don't lay it on too thick), he will eventually crack.

Police do this all the time when interviewing people. They just keep talking to them until they can't help themselves from responding.

It has been two days now and even I have trouble holding out much longer than that.

Don't let him get a whiff of an idea that you have been discussing this on Seabreeze or you will be in big trouble.

cisco
QLD, 12350 posts
27 Mar 2013 12:24AM
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It is three days now.

How long can you last???

kk
WA, 949 posts
27 Mar 2013 10:30PM
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Mark _australia
WA, 22812 posts
27 Mar 2013 10:48PM
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needsalt said...
It is actually a male friend I was worried about when I asked this question.


Whoa hang on, it is not your bloke?

Well geez the answer is obvious.
Move to WA and let us help you.

(don't listen to SN and Doggie who make it sound creepy, it is OK... honest)

needsalt
NSW, 381 posts
29 Mar 2013 12:07AM
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Hehe... best suggestion so far

thePup
13831 posts
28 Mar 2013 9:18PM
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So I take it no flowery things , no nice massage & no good classy wine & food as yet and no hehehe's

Mark _australia
WA, 22812 posts
28 Mar 2013 9:20PM
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needsalt said...
Hehe... best suggestion so far


needdirections needsalt?

thePup
13831 posts
28 Mar 2013 9:20PM
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Mark _australia said...


needsalt said...
Hehe... best suggestion so far


needdirections needsalt?



AquaPlow
QLD, 1053 posts
28 Mar 2013 11:31PM
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That blunt but very human series
Making Couples Happy - ABC
is out on DVD now
book some time (in desperation use a post-it note on the mirror)
and watch together ....

Still silent - then he has lost his voice and suggest seek medical advice
Cheers

AP



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