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What's a good car for my 18yo daughter

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Created by oliver > 9 months ago, 27 Feb 2011
busterwa
3777 posts
27 Feb 2011 9:39PM
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doggie said...

cisco said...

I have a beautiful 84 XE Fairmont that would be just the ticket for her.

Style, performance, reliability and economy.

It is worth $20k+ but as you are a member of the Seabreeze community, I'll cop $10k for it as long as you don't tell anyone how cheap I have sold it.


Ha!! Cisco it's worth $250


$350^ with Ariel.


cisco
QLD, 12337 posts
27 Feb 2011 11:41PM
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No. I always fit the short black rubber antenneas.

busterwa
3777 posts
27 Feb 2011 9:47PM
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if you do buy second hand make sure the timing belt has been changed.

if you have to remove the front passenger tyre to get to the water pump or cant locate the water pump when you pop the bonnet dont buy it !!!

Dawn Patrol
WA, 1991 posts
27 Feb 2011 9:52PM
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I would stick with one of the 'main' brands. Toyota, Holden, Subaru, Ford (, unless its an xr6 turbo[}:)]).

I used to have a Toyota Camry, a 99 one, and now my younger sister has it. It goes great, cheap to run, safe etc. For 10k you'd be able to get something 2000-2005ish.

BMW or something like that would be silly. For 10k it will be a POS, and when they break down, parts will be harder to find, and way more pricey (Plus probably higher insurance premiums).

A corrola/astra/impreza would be perfect. Most girls dont cart around surfboards etc, and dont need anything much bigger. If she is the surfy type, commodore station wagons are massive and pretty cheap for the executive model (lowest one, but still has front airbags in the more recent years). The boots in those are awesome!

Dawn Patrol
WA, 1991 posts
27 Feb 2011 9:55PM
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busterwa said...

if you do buy second hand make sure the timing belt has been changed.

if you have to remove the front passenger tyre to get to the water pump or cant locate the water pump when you pop the bonnet dont buy it !!!



I think 4cylinder car is usually 100,000km intervals, and 6cylinders are 150,000km interval for timing belt changing (could be wrong, but in my cars all the 4cylinder ones have been 100k and all the 6cylinder ones have been 150k)

cisco
QLD, 12337 posts
28 Feb 2011 12:04AM
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This is a BMW. Put her in one of these.

cisco
QLD, 12337 posts
28 Feb 2011 12:46AM
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doggie said...

cisco said...

I have a beautiful 84 XE Fairmont that would be just the ticket for her.

Style, performance, reliability and economy.

It is worth $20k+ but as you are a member of the Seabreeze community, I'll cop $10k for it as long as you don't tell anyone how cheap I have sold it.


Ha!! Cisco it's worth $250


More than a few would disagree with you on that doggie. This search is Australia wide.

www.carsales.com.au/?utm_source=carpoint/all-cars/results.aspx?tabID=2208746&YearFromShort=1632&YearToShort=1663&keywords=&EngineCCFrom=607&EngineCCTo=617&N=1216%201247%201252%201282%204294966280%204294966463%201561%20713%201632%201663%20245%20607%20617&Ns=pCar_PriceSort_Decimal%7C0%7C%7CpCar_RankSort_Int32%7C1%7C%7CpCar_Make_String%7C0%7C%7CpCar_Model_String%7C0

Elroy Jetson
WA, 706 posts
27 Feb 2011 11:25PM
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oliver said...

I would love to be able to put this whole car thing off and make her pay for it etc. But I can't see it happening.

I know she will prang it, so a safe car is really important.


How many cars or repairs are you gonna pay for Oliver?

For how many years will this continue?

My knob head sister is 37, living in my parents 2nd house, and on her 4th consecutive car that family has paid for (she has also had 2 very serious and extremely expensive car accidents).

She has cost them 100 000's of dollars so far and it looks like her willingness to remain financially dependent will continue for many years (read decades) into the future.


I made a big decision early on, knocked back some offers of financial help, offended my parents, and decided the best way to become independent would be to pay for my own material possessions.

For many years life was a day to day challenge.


5 years ago I did some work for an ex-farmer. He was very wise. He did not give a cent to any of his 3 kids for their cars.

He paid for their 3rd party insurance and nothing else. His kids had to either save up for a cheap car or pay a bank loan off if they wanted a better car.

All maintenance, license and fuel costs paid for by the kids.


He said his kids were more likely to drive sensibly (presumably to save money on running costs) and therefore less likely to have accidents.

No Job, meant no cashflow, and that would mean no driving.

He stated that a car was the first purchase that signified their independence. It was a perfect way to show that his offspring could act like adults.

The ex-farmer wasn't short of coin.

After his kids had shown that they had learned how to look after their own transport needs, he and his wife happily injected significant funds toward the purchase of their first home.

This is the method I plan to use for my kids.

busterwa
3777 posts
28 Feb 2011 12:08AM
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My test drive is.. prominently hoon/ freeway driving long roads country tailgate grannies land cruisers no road trains up my arse... etc style..

So go down your local street clock it up at 120kph and see how many cats you can run before the taco gets to 3500rpm in fifth gear. If she is from the country the corolla wont dig the long open road and you behind stuck behind road trains.\
Depends on the driving etc.
I cant recommend the car as im not sure on the status or objectives in driving she will require out of a car.
One thing i can recommend if you spend that money you would be looking for turn key reliability.And ultimately you dont want to be towing her home or her ringing you up because her car has broken down. (somthing with a new car warranty left on it)

hills
SA, 1622 posts
28 Feb 2011 8:36AM
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I agree with the points Elroy Jetson makes. My dad bought me my first car, an XT Falcon, but I had to repay him what I could from my after school job at the supermarket.

I didn't realise this at the time but he was putting all of this in a bank account and then gave it all to me for my 18th birthday.

I intend to do the same for my sons. I don't want them to think they can get everything for free.

Sailhack
VIC, 5000 posts
28 Feb 2011 11:27AM
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oliver said...

Thanks breezers.

This discussion has woken me up to the reality of this. I would love to be able to put this whole car thing off and make her pay for it etc. But I can't see it happening.

If she's 18 and can't afford her own car, then she shouldn't have one - simple! If you do 'buy' her one, as mentioned, make it a loan that she has to pay back, she'll respect it more.


I know she will prang it,


If that's the case, you'd be better putting your hard earned dollars into a funeral fund for her - sorry to be blunt, but I wouldn't let my kids drive without being 100% confident of their abilities, if you're thinking that now then you're in for a lot of sleepless nights. Unfortunately if she's not driving, one of her mates probably is.

ABS brakes are great, and think the side airbags are also a good thing - hope they never have to be used. The phone thing with her is a real worry - instead of installing a hands free kit, I think I'll just make it clear to her that a condition on the car is that her phone is not to be used under any circumstances while she's in it.


ABS brakes and traction control are important, but first preference should be airbags! I've seen carnage first-hand in an accident between a car with air bags & one without...if she does have a 'bad' accident (and I hope not) air bags will save your daughter's life.

Also, you probably won't stop her from using her mobile phone whilst driving, but you have to try. Educate her on the dangers, or get your local police to speak to her. If you're buying the car, even threaten to take it off her if she gets caught or even seen using her phone whilst driving. Statistics showing accidents & deaths due to mobile phone use whilst driving are rising at an alarming rate & is close to being the number 1 killer on our roads.

Sorry for being so heavy, but as a SES member I've witnessed some things that have woken me up to how important road safety is. I'm not looking forward to the day I send my kids out on the roads, mainly due to the 'other idiot' factor, but if I do my job as best I can as a parent, I'll be able to sleep at night knowing that I've done my best in educating them & confident that they will be responsible & safe drivers in cars with excellent safety features.

[edit] some light reading-
http://understandingteenagers.com.au/blog/2010/10/teenagers-cars-a-deadly-combination/

Hamsta
505 posts
28 Feb 2011 8:58AM
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Meh, why get her JUST a car. $10k you say, well you can pick one of these up on super special at present for $2k. Womens specific geometry and suspension set up.

Spend another $1.8k should get you/her a bomb proof lock, a decent Gortex cycling jacket (cool mornings/wet weather is no excuse anymore) , some SPD pedals and shoes, some padded baggy riding shorts, a helmet, some half decent lights, a decent pack/hydration system and a basic toolkit and manual so she can learn to maintain her ride.

That leaves you with $5.7k (0.5k for stampduty/transfer) to buy her a car, that she will rarely use as she will be lovin' fanging around on her bike through gridlock whilst getting fitter and more confident.

She may even start riding off road and develop even more self confidence.

What ever you do, don't let her put stuffed toys on the rear window sill of her car or a Frangepani sticker ANYWHERE on her vehicle as other drivers will assume she is mildly retarded and treat her as such.

Mobydisc
NSW, 9029 posts
28 Feb 2011 12:43PM
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Its all well and good to recommend someone to buy a bicycle but in Sydney at least cylists place their life in the hands of others when they ride their bike on the road. I think in general most Australian car drivers don't like sharing the road with cyclists. They see them as getting in the way and resent cyclists who don't obey road rules.

I would not recommend anyone to do that when the we have the amount of traffic that we do with narrow lanes and quite aggressive drivers.

Its a pity Syndey doesn't have decent cycle paths off the road. It would be great having cycle paths along side railway lines outside of the CBD.


In relation to cars the general choice would be for a larger Australian car or a smaller foreign car, probably a Japanese one. Both have their pros and cons. Possibly if safety is an overiding issue then the larger Australian car would be the go.

Hamsta
505 posts
28 Feb 2011 10:12AM
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Mobydisc said...

Its all well and good to recommend someone to buy a bicycle but in Sydney at least cylists place their life in the hands of others when they ride their bike on the road. I think in general most Australian car drivers don't like sharing the road with cyclists. They see them as getting in the way and resent cyclists who don't obey road rules.

That is because most car drivers are not educated re: sharing roads with bicycles and vise versa. Would it be fair to say that you take your life in your hands when you drive a car?. Statistically, you'd be safer on a bicycle. I don't like the attitude of many other road users when I drive my car or ride my bicycle, but I deal with it. What exactly is your point?


I would not recommend anyone to do that when the we have the amount of traffic that we do with narrow lanes and quite aggressive drivers.

People commute by bicycle every day in Sydney without incident. By your reasoning, maintain the status quo, keep the cycling population in check and add to the gridlock by discouraging using bicycles as an alternate mode of transport. There are only going to be more cars on the road, so why not encourage more people to use bikes? Educate both riders and drivers.
Perhaps with more bicycles, riden by road wise cyclists, vehicle drivers will have to accept that there are cyclist sharing the roads and cyclist's reciprocate by obeying the road rules.


Its a pity Syndey doesn't have decent cycle paths off the road. It would be great having cycle paths along side railway lines outside of the CBD.

Absolutley, I live in Perth and the cycle path network is awesome and hopefully getting better with some thoughful future urban planning. In saying this, Sydney does have cyclepaths


In relation to cars the general choice would be for a larger Australian car or a smaller foreign car, probably a Japanese one. Both have their pros and cons. Possibly if safety is an overiding issue then the larger Australian car would be the go.

If your number is up, your number is up, regardless of what you drive


Herry
130 posts
28 Feb 2011 5:27PM
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MIKO said...




Might cost a bit more than 10 k


Hmm, a shaggin wagon for his 18yo daughter. I don't think he'll go for it.

oliver
3952 posts
28 Feb 2011 5:51PM
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Until a few posts ago I was seriously thinking about the Hyundai Getz, but then the thought of seeing the wheel nuts on the truck beside her just got to me. The thought of the doc showing my daughter things she'd never imagined also gave me the shivers.

I think I'm just going to tell my daughter to take a whole lot of sleeping pills and just end it. This isn't going to work out for anybody. My wife and I are really bad parents and we should just do the same thing too.

That way my wild 14yo son can get a really big inheritance and can buy whatever he wants when he turns 18. I hope he get's the Sandman - did they come with V8's? Cause if they do I hope he does the ton in it down Gipsland hwy, becomes airborne, and rips right through Sailhacks house and dislodges his cotton wool clad kids from their cocoons that he's spinning for them.

mkseven
QLD, 2314 posts
28 Feb 2011 8:25PM
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and anyone thinking a bigger car will save them from an accident with a truck is in a state of false security. Nothing this side of a tourag/cayenne/q7/xc70 will save you and even they will probably roll over. A new Getz or Yaris would be safer than many cars of just 5 or 10 years ago. To discount a new small car over something 15 years old is just stupid.

As I said in my last post, i've been in minor acci's in yaris & getz including 1 where driver ran a red light at about 70km/h. That is first hand experience not old hat conjecture, I wish I had kept pics of some of the fleet cars I used to look after- only ones we ever had injuries in were the small 4wd things and commodores. I've had cars completely destroyed, others with engines ripped out, another fell asleep at wheel at 100kmh and drove into pole. Being in a minor accident really feels "soft", much more preferable to any other accident i've been in with older cars.

Consider also that maybe some of that vulnerable feeling makes you drive a little more sensibly.

SandS
VIC, 5904 posts
28 Feb 2011 10:23PM
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yes it,s a real conundrum, we live down the coast and our kid is comming up to this stage in life as well. High speeds in the country are a worry when kids are learning.
I know I smashed a bit in the city when new to driving. but at least those smashes were low speed.

I am like you Oliver, absolutly NFI what to do.

I think she will probally move to melbourne to find work anyway , so public transport untill she can afford a car, of some discription may be the way to go.? WFknows.

Also cars are a bit of a fashion statement, so the kid should have some say in the look of the thing when finally purchased imo.

Anyway, cheers and all the best.

ginger pom
VIC, 1746 posts
28 Feb 2011 10:30PM
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How safe she feels will affect how she drives. The number of tiny women driving round in X5's like their ****ing invincible with a coffee/phone on the go illustrates this. Out of their cars they'd be meek and deferential - put them in a tank and quite frankly they deserve a punch.

If she's going to cause the accident then putting her in an X5 is just ****ing over someone else.... someone who has thought a little bit less selfishly...

If you put her in a getz and explain that if she crashes it then it's probable that she'll get hurt, and that it won't matter whose fault it was, you can't get leg movement back on insurance. Tell her that she should concentrate and watch out for all the ****wits out there....

doggie
WA, 15849 posts
28 Feb 2011 8:30PM
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Hyundai Getz.

Hamsta
505 posts
28 Feb 2011 9:34PM
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And people wonder why Australia's population is suffering from higher levels of Type 2 Diabetes and other obesity related illnesses.

Buy her a cheaper car and a bicycle. Tell her you want whats best for her and that using a bicycle for commmuting to work/study/centrelink is good for her and good for the environment. Tell her she will be keeping in shape and she will be more likely to meet a Stockbroker/Lawyer/Accountant whilst cruising around on her bike than sitting in her car. The sooner she meets and elopes with one of the above, the sooner she will be out of the house.

No mobile phone issues on a bike either.

The added bonus of buying her the bicycle is that it sounds like you will probably be paying for her petrol and vehicle maintenance, so the more she rides her bike, the less you you have to outlay to keep her car running.


And for the love of god, no Southern Cross, UNIT, Princess and so on and so forth stickers to be placed on the car as other drivers will treat her as though she is a simpleton, regardless of the badge value of whatever she is steering around in.

EDIT: Why don't you set an example for your kids and buy a bike too. For $40k you could get a bike for yourself, the wife and still buy a decent car.

cisco
QLD, 12337 posts
28 Feb 2011 11:46PM
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Elroy Jetson said...
How many cars or repairs are you gonna pay for Oliver?

For how many years will this continue?

My knob head sister is 37, living in my parents 2nd house, and on her 4th consecutive car that family has paid for (she has also had 2 very serious and extremely expensive car accidents).

She has cost them 100 000's of dollars so far and it looks like her willingness to remain financially dependent will continue for many years (read decades) into the future.


I made a big decision early on, knocked back some offers of financial help, offended my parents, and decided the best way to become independent would be to pay for my own material possessions.

For many years life was a day to day challenge.


5 years ago I did some work for an ex-farmer. He was very wise. He did not give a cent to any of his 3 kids for their cars.

He paid for their 3rd party insurance and nothing else. His kids had to either save up for a cheap car or pay a bank loan off if they wanted a better car.

All maintenance, license and fuel costs paid for by the kids.


He said his kids were more likely to drive sensibly (presumably to save money on running costs) and therefore less likely to have accidents.

No Job, meant no cashflow, and that would mean no driving.

He stated that a car was the first purchase that signified their independence. It was a perfect way to show that his offspring could act like adults.

The ex-farmer wasn't short of coin.

After his kids had shown that they had learned how to look after their own transport needs, he and his wife happily injected significant funds toward the purchase of their first home.

This is the method I plan to use for my kids.


This is what Robert Kiyosaki calls "financial out-patient care".

Like the farmer, if you want your children to grow up to be financially independant, do not give them "financial out-patient care".

I think it is rare that a child accepts advice from a parent but they will usually accept money.

If they are not humble enough to accept that they do not know everything, fine.

You are out of the nest, go spread your wings and learn what life is really all about. If you are lucky, when I am dead there will be something left for you.

Children!! You can love them but you cannot live their lives for them so you might as well get on with your own.

If on the day you die if your bank balance is zero or less, it might be said that you have lived a full life. Especially if your bank balance is -$10,000,000 or more or less and no one gets to inherit that.

Hamsta
505 posts
28 Feb 2011 10:05PM
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Elroy Jetson said...


For how many years will this continue?

My knob head sister is 37, living in my parents 2nd house, and on her 4th consecutive car that family has paid for (she has also had 2 very serious and extremely expensive car accidents).

She has cost them 100 000's of dollars so far and it looks like her willingness to remain financially dependent will continue for many years (read decades) into the future.


I made a big decision early on, knocked back some offers of financial help, offended my parents, and decided the best way to become independent would be to pay for my own material possessions.

For many years life was a day to day challenge.




Your sister sounds quite messed up. Know of any reason/s why she should be so dependent upon your parents?

Elroy Jetson
WA, 706 posts
28 Feb 2011 10:53PM
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Hamsta said...

Your sister sounds quite messed up. Know of any reason/s why she should be so dependent upon your parents?


Ha ha. Yes, I could name many reasons :)

The bottom line is simple (To repeat the good points Cisco made above).

She would be financially independent today if all her cars and house had not been paid for by someone else for the last 20 years.


Many parents keep one foot in the lives of their adult children. Strategizing their lives as their own.

Making sure the kids have all the material possessions to make the kids look like they are grown up and independent.

As hard as it would be for most parents, I firmly believe the last gift that a parent can give their child is their independence.

Hamsta
505 posts
28 Feb 2011 11:19PM
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That seems like a very wise observation Elroy Jetson. I've never really looked at the relationship between a parent and an adult child that way, and what you have said makes a lot of sense now I think about it. It is a pretty common situation in our society isn't it.

king of the point
WA, 1836 posts
1 Mar 2011 12:06AM
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Datsun 120 Y

Sailhack
VIC, 5000 posts
1 Mar 2011 9:32AM
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oliver said...


Cause if they do I hope he does the ton in it down Gipsland hwy, becomes airborne, and rips right through Sailhacks house and dislodges his cotton wool clad kids from their cocoons that he's spinning for them.



I guess I deserved that one. Yeah, I do protect my kids a bit, although at their age, that's the norm. I'm not too worried about your son getting to my house either...even some of my own family get lost trying to find this town!

As for my previous comments, sorry to get heavy, but I attended a head-on saturday morning involving an 18yo girl...outcome not good. It does mess with you a bit, especially when you see the parent turn up.

My point was just make sure you give your kids all the education & tools they need to survive, I couldn't imagine being in that situation, and no-one could prepare you for that.

Hamsta
505 posts
1 Mar 2011 9:32AM
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Sailhack said...

oliver said...


Cause if they do I hope he does the ton in it down Gipsland hwy, becomes airborne, and rips right through Sailhacks house and dislodges his cotton wool clad kids from their cocoons that he's spinning for them.



I guess I deserved that one. Yeah, I do protect my kids a bit, although at their age, that's the norm. I'm not too worried about your son getting to my house either...even some of my own family get lost trying to find this town!

As for my previous comments, sorry to get heavy, but I attended a head-on saturday morning involving an 18yo girl...outcome not good. It does mess with you a bit, especially when you see the parent turn up.

My point was just make sure you give your kids all the education & tools they need to survive, I couldn't imagine being in that situation, and no-one could prepare you for that.


Very true. Been a witness at a double fatality involving a car and a truck and first on scene at another fatality involving a motorbike and a 4WD. Drive or ride safely........better to be 15 minutes 'late' than dead on time.

worrier
WA, 726 posts
1 Mar 2011 9:50AM
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Toyota Rav.
Try a 2 door model. Sits higher than the getz and corrolas etc.
Better vision and easier seen by other drivers especially trucks and 4WDS.
My thoughts anyway.
W

FlickySpinny
WA, 657 posts
1 Mar 2011 10:10AM
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Bit more expensive, but I've just bought one of these brand new (yesterday).

I spent a long, long time working out what we needed and what was the best value. You can pick these up for $17k inc. the safety pack if you haggle hard (do it at the end of the sales month, and over the phone).

Mazda2 Neo with Safety Pack
6 airbags (incl. side and curtain)
ABS
Electronic Stability Control

Looks awesome, stupidly easy to drive and park, great visibility, and big enough to get wave kit in if an extreme emergency takes the Kombi out of action.

On top of all that, the 1.5 has just enough guts to actually pull you out of trouble, as opposed to Hyundai Getz 1.4 which just turns fuel into noise and smoke if you put your foot down. It also feels a lot more robust that the Getz.

Plus... the depreciation on these things is virtually non-existent, esp if you buy the 2011 model which has just had a slight update and had the Stability Control added.


Spent a long time working out which car to buy - this I reckon is the best value car on Australia's roads today (big claim I know).

I would definitely avoid small 4x4s - in your price range they almost exclusively have no stability control, and in the hands of a youngster/anyone, these are the cars that need it most. Seen too many softroader crashes on slippery roads in the UK.



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