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that's nothing much to brag about......
when I worked at the big pub on the beach, one of the wedding receptions held there spent over 40k on flowers.
that's 40k that went in the hotel's rubbish compactor the next day......
At least engagement rings don't get chucked out [hopefully]
stephen
Not sure if I'm proud to say it but I didn't buy my wife a diamond engagement ring. I bought her a gold chain that was valued on weight. So its gone up a bit in value over the years. The year before we got married I bought her a ring with a glass crystal on it. We got it in Hong Kong for about $40 as it was a silver ring. It looks quite like a real diamond, real enough to fool an aunt who thinks stuff like diamond rings are important.
I sometimes get a bit of stick from the missus about not getting her a diamond ring but then I tell her basically the same as what this video says.
Why was that Marilyn Monroe song written, Diamonds are a girls best friend?
I'm pretty well over the whole consumer lifestyle now and tend to think that less is more when it comes to stuff.
It's the meaning behind the cash layout that's the point of it. Don't really matter what the actual material object is. You think real hard about the future of the relationship when you're handing over that cold hard cash!
Its not the quality of the ring but the quality of the person who gives it to you. Money and expensive jewellery are of least importance.
These last two comments are at odds, no? Or are they saying the same thing?
Cambodge points out that the person laying over the cash has really thought about what he is doing. That he is sure about the relationship. This also says to the girl that yes, she is the one, and also that yes, he is at least sincere about this and has thought it through.
kat75 says this doesn't matter, it's about the quality of the person.
But I think saving up for and committing like that does say something about the quality of the person, even if it is just a worthless shiny rock after all. It's both logical in the thought put into the commitment, and romantic in how the money's being splashed on only something she can enjoy.
I couldn't afford the ring my really, really wife wanted so we went halves. We just celebrated 10 years.
so a mate of mine spent 35k on a pink argyle stone for his missus
just the stone
but they've been together for 30yrs
and she never got an engagement ring in the beginning..
i plonked down a grand for a second hand kite for mine
and she's heaps hotter...
plus i get to use the kite................
....... that's why they call me theDoctor.... 
I didnt mean that if you can afford an expensive ring than you are less caring. I meant a expensive ring shouldnt stop you from asking someone you love to marry you. People are so hung up on the cost of weddings or valentines gifts these days, some people not everyone.
When I got engaged about 8 years ago I spent about 20% of my annual income to buy a ring for my to be wife. It took ages to save for it - we even had a kid by then - and it was really high quality beautiful ring. But no where near as big as some of the rings her friends had.
Now times are much easier and my income has increased significantly I though it would be nice to give her an upgrade - asked her what she would like and how big a diamond....
Must have been my lucky day, because she said "you went without (beer/fishing gear/boys trips ect) to buy this ring for me - that's what means something to me. If you buy me a big diamond now that you can afford it without having to worry - whats the point? Besides I could just use my credit card to buy one if I wanted..."
Don't know if I should thank my lucky stars or keep a really close eye on the bank statements....
Problem with so called status symbols now is that they are a measure of both wealth and idiocy with regards to borrowing money...
Shallow people are tripping over one another to borrow to out do one another.... providing they're comfortable to starve without state intervention when they retire then i suppose it's not our problem..
But, but I spent $3000 on a new Chrono kite! Are you telling me that now it's worth like $300?!
Mwwwwaaahhhhh!!!!!
I did not feel bad about not buying the engagement ring - she proposed to me so I figured she should be getting me one - still waiting
If your partner wont say yes unless you buy her a 40K engagement ring - run
Bought my wife a modest ring, went to a private (non chain store) jewellers, got a reasonable deal, great service. Figured she deserved something for constantly putting up with me. Could have bought her a kite but the last time I did that I destroyed it on a reef break and I still haven't heard the end of that one yet.
Your focus is all wrong.....
It's like whining about the fact that your ticket was printed in black and white on some cheap paper instead of being card and on colour....
What you should be focusing on is that you have a ticket to the Britney Spears acoustic comeback tour.....
That diamond ring is like dipping your toe in the ocean.... You think it's cold and expensive now? Wait until you jump into marriage!
Focus people!
Yep, the wedding / honeymoon is at least 3-4 times the price.
2.5k on an item she'll wear once.
15k on dinner and drinks for your friends and family.
1.5k on bridal makeup and trials
20k on a honeymoon
1.2k on limos for a few hours
3.5k for a photographer and album
1k for a cake
2k in flowers and table decorations.
And then some...
Bring on summer 2015, so many new toys
Engagement ring is the cheap part. In saying that, dont buy a diamond from a jewellery store. Buy from blue nile or even better, jogia and then get it valued. 
I must be the only woman that would not care about the cost of a ring. I wouldnt ask a man how much he paid either. Maybe the cost of all the stuff is why so many choose defacto relationships.
When the Sandwichmaker and myself eloped, we arranged for the boys to wag a day off school, whacked them into suits and they got to be witnesses
worked for us, YMMV
stephen
There's a fair size rock between the swimming flags at One Mile Beach, about 20 meters out. If we ever end up replacing it, it will be a cubic zirconium for sure.
