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How to justify / get away with new gear to the other half.

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Created by Imax1 28 days ago, 24 Oct 2024
Imax1
QLD, 4767 posts
24 Oct 2024 6:50PM
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The first one is safety. It's dangerous to have that old wobbly fin...
Try to keep your sails the same kind of color ish..
With a straight face , perfect, "what ? , that old sail", or ,"Davo sold me that for $75". Good to have a bit of stash cash.

Subsonic
WA, 3167 posts
24 Oct 2024 5:38PM
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Just don't get married man. My spare bedroom is sails and boards.

Mr Keen
QLD, 599 posts
24 Oct 2024 7:52PM
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I got my other half on the water, she is not as enthusiastic but she understands....
Recently bought a board at a good price off local shop after he sent me a text asking if I knew of anyone who would want it. Her response was ^He knew you would get it"
A good woman if worth her weight in gear

Mark _australia
WA, 22581 posts
24 Oct 2024 7:16PM
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New boards go into old bags for years without getting caught

buy a custom and pay $100 a week as it gets built

SurferKris
385 posts
24 Oct 2024 8:31PM
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Mr Keen said..
I got my other half on the water, she is not as enthusiastic but she understands....


Yes, that is what I have done too. Helps with choosing holiday locations too, there has to be a windsurfing rental nearby. ;)

Recently she made up a new requirement/rule though, a new board in means that an old one has to go out...


Paducah
2594 posts
24 Oct 2024 9:31PM
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Always have boards the same color and enough of them ("indeterminate number") that n+1 looks pretty much like n. Or at least use the same color and style of board bag.

My wife is my biggest fan. As much as a I love windsurfing, she's staying.

elmo
WA, 8740 posts
24 Oct 2024 9:38PM
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Don't ever complain about what your wife spends

jdfoils
240 posts
24 Oct 2024 10:40PM
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Marry someone who appreciates you the way you are... and cherish her for being herself.

remery
WA, 2996 posts
24 Oct 2024 11:34PM
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Tell her your ordered flowers and jewellery for her, but scammers hacked your account and sent windsurfing gear.

John340
QLD, 3182 posts
25 Oct 2024 7:36AM
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elmo said..
Don't ever complain about what your wife spends


And encourage her special interests/passion (equestrian in her case) as well.

Jetlag
NSW, 182 posts
25 Oct 2024 9:34AM
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Write off some gear in "driveway reversing accident" or "a rat got into my sailbag". Doesn't even need to be your current kit!!!

Sandee
QLD, 195 posts
25 Oct 2024 11:42AM
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Mr Keen said..
I got my other half on the water, she is not as enthusiastic but she understands....
A good woman if worth her weight in gear



A good strategy, when it works!
I actually married a sailboarder who was waay better at it than I was, but it didn't quite work out as he promptly lost interest in watersports. Which is hugely disappointing. And I changed to kiting, but still have sailboards gathering dust.
He still sometimes warns me when conditions won't be good (but I don't listen).
But at least he doesn't stop me from collecting more gear, as necessary. And I don't question his 'needs' to purchase whatever stuff he thinks necessary for his interests.

I hope it keeps working out well for you, as a shared passion makes for double the fun!

fangman
WA, 1667 posts
25 Oct 2024 9:57AM
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Use 'Retail Therapy Maths' as taught to me by the ladies. Stay with me here and read carefully:
Buy an item that is at least 50% off. With that discount applied, you have now saved more than you intended to spend. Therefore the item was free.

Jasonwave
125 posts
25 Oct 2024 10:08AM
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I find it helps to occasionally be seen to sell something. It would help her cause too if she sold off the odd pair of shoes or handbag.

Tardy
5050 posts
25 Oct 2024 10:40AM
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Married a blonde, honestly its ok

Maddlad
WA, 883 posts
25 Oct 2024 11:06AM
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Subsonic said..
Just don't get married man. My spare bedroom is sails and boards.


Amen brother!

firiebob
WA, 3149 posts
25 Oct 2024 11:39AM
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My wife is just happy if I'm happy, I'm happy

Paducah
2594 posts
25 Oct 2024 11:47AM
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A reversal of the genders but I like the way Blondie thinks here (old American comic strip)



Hydrosurf
205 posts
25 Oct 2024 9:59PM
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+1 for the blonde and trips to Spain and Portugal with with girls from work help compensate.

515
819 posts
26 Oct 2024 7:15AM
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Great topic!
I'm normally pretty honest with my partner but earlier this year I brought a foil drive (I'm still going to windsurf occasionally). A mate goes "it's best to ask for forgiveness after".

Well that cost a new mattress and a new couch

kato
VIC, 3410 posts
26 Oct 2024 12:27PM
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John340 said..

elmo said..
Don't ever complain about what your wife spends



And encourage her special interests/passion (equestrian in her case) as well.


NOOOOOO NOT HORSES!!!! They cost a small fortune standing still in the paddock.
Thankfully my wife has moved on into surfing and the horse has a new owner ??????

Gestalt
QLD, 14437 posts
26 Oct 2024 4:10PM
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Have found the best way to justify gear is to use it as much as possible.

John340
QLD, 3182 posts
26 Oct 2024 9:07PM
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kato said..

John340 said..


elmo said..
Don't ever complain about what your wife spends




And encourage her special interests/passion (equestrian in her case) as well.



NOOOOOO NOT HORSES!!!! They cost a small fortune standing still in the paddock.
Thankfully my wife has moved on into surfing and the horse has a new owner ??????


All true, but unfortunately I don't get to choose, but then again neither does she about my sailing??

sboardcrazy
NSW, 8050 posts
28 Oct 2024 12:08PM
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kato said..



John340 said..




elmo said..
Don't ever complain about what your wife spends






And encourage her special interests/passion (equestrian in her case) as well.





NOOOOOO NOT HORSES!!!! They cost a small fortune standing still in the paddock.
Thankfully my wife has moved on into surfing and the horse has a new owner ??????




I had a horse..Unfortunately I had to put him down so I'm now horseless. It's probably for the best as I don't bounce as well now I'm older.. Water is softer to land on
Boards are much easier. You can just leave them in the shed until needed, no feed , farrier or vet bills.
No mind of their own .. although sometimes I wonder..

philn
880 posts
29 Oct 2024 2:34AM
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One out for one in seems to work best for me.

Manuel7
1270 posts
30 Oct 2024 9:50PM
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Hmm.... I can't justify buying new gear to myself so it's easy. Or do you include the new-to-us as well ?!

66WSF
QLD, 413 posts
5 Nov 2024 8:27PM
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Get your local retailer to tell your wife that they don't sell gear. It's just somewhere you go for a coffee and to swap gear over ( thanks Board crazy ??).

Imax1
QLD, 4767 posts
5 Nov 2024 9:05PM
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Manuel7 said..
Hmm.... I can't justify buying new gear to myself so it's easy. Or do you include the new-to-us as well ?!


Yeah ,anything

Stretchy
WA, 961 posts
5 Nov 2024 9:46PM
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John340 said..

elmo said..
Don't ever complain about what your wife spends



And encourage her special interests/passion (equestrian in her case) as well.


Mine too and my daughter. I'm encouraged to get gear, she's one step ahead of me .

Kasper79
103 posts
8 Nov 2024 3:48AM
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All ways a great topic I made a video about it with my wifey, just for fun. She is super supportive and does all the filming for my YouTube channel. I make sure to get her many gifts.

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BSN101
WA, 2306 posts
8 Nov 2024 10:54AM
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Maddlad said..

Subsonic said..
Just don't get married man. My spare bedroom is sails and boards.



Amen brother!


My ex comments that I look happy and it's great that I'm getting out so much. If only that attitude was there way back when. And I take the kids sometime too which is a bonus for me.



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