birthday present for girlfriend of one month ??!!

I agree with the massage...or a pamper treatment
but do you know how much they are???
Thats to much to spend on a very new girl friend..

and the flowers come with a different reason, from my point of view, which is if the relationship does not last, then there is no lasting memory of NasiGoreng as the flowers have died and been throwen out.

If he gives her perfume, or some sort of physical item and the relationship dies, she has a constant reminder of maybe a crappy relationship (in her mind) and throws the item away..(waste of money)

Hey but then he might marry her

Yes i know its expensive. -id stick to the ice skating thats like 15 dollars for 2 hours! probably why i haven't taken my hubby hot air ballooning !

_ but hey he sounds like he is young single wage no anchors.
I think they key is there if your not compatible you can still have alot of fun and memories without being locked into a relationship where money or possession take priority. If you dont end up with this girl the memory of you and her doing something eccentrically out of the circle will never be forgotten.
Flowers last a week memories last a lifetime !

take her to a swingers club [}:)]

You know what ,,,
Egyptian princess used to bath in donkey milk, for beauty



Cleopatra even full bath in slaves milk for exceptional skin therapy
....
I think that with such exeptionanal contribution from all SB 'members'
this girl could have the best royal treatment too

Hubby. HUBBY!???!

Buster, is there something you haven't told us? Has someone hacked your account??

FWIW, I'd go with what gypsy says. Flowers and a root.

Thanks for the responses chaps!!

loved all the replies!!

some cheapo, modest silver stud earings from Tiffany's is the winner.

Its all about the blue box.

Looks the shiz but cost under $100 (which is half my budget for the ex)

surf lessons.....

So what you are saying is "looks like sh** and only cost under $100. I would give my ex (who I can no longer stand ) a gift of at least twice the value" Thats really going to show you up as a tight ars*. Don't do it.

Earings.................. wrong move unless they are that classy!

You forgot the pearl necklace...

Yes, a necessity in any gift giving

nothing says i love you more than a box of cadbury favourites .